Biggest turn-off in the online dating world

If online dating is a drug, then perhaps some people will never get out of it and are still addicted to it. In the world of online dating, there are certain actions you shouldn’t apply and they are unspoken. These actions can be unpleasant to other people and they won’t do you any good at all. So, you should understand these actions and try to avoid them in the future.

1. Staying online whenever wherever
Spend an hour a day looking for dates online sounds reasonable. There are many sites showing your online status, and it is easy for other interested members to view your online status. If you’ve already shown interest to a new friend you both think are matched, please, adjust the time you spend in the online dating world. Or if you have seen someone who is always in the online status mode, you better start exercise your caution and know more about how he or she thinks.

2. Say something bad about your ex
Sharing your horror stories about the past is never a pleasant way to draw new attentions from others. Very often, singles are very eager to go on a date or to find someone new in order to fill the emptiness inside the body and soul. Or perhaps many of them get caught in that downward spiral of having a couple of bad dates. But please, it is too negative. Sharing bad experiences is never a good idea in the first place. You may save it to share them later on.

3. Immaturity
It can come to one of the biggest turn-offs for someone who is more serious about making friends. Nobody would love to put up with someone who is immature. Signs of immaturity include being self-centered, impatient, never listen to others, etc. Do you have these signs of immaturity? Better self-acknowledge them today.

4. The picture doesn’t sound right
A picture can say thousand words. No one would love to see a picture which does not sound appealing. Try to show the best image of yourself. If you have already uploaded one, think twice, and see if they are fine to you or not.

5. Poor communication skills
We first know a person on the dating site by reading words at the profile. If the words are beautifully written up, nice. But we can’t stand to spend more time to interpret some unintelligible writing. Poor communication skills are fatal in the online dating world. So, fine tune it a bit more and understand more about the effective communication skills.

6. No target audience
Why there are so many people burned out in the online dating world? It is largely due to the fact that they set no target audience in their written profile. To avoid problems arising from knowing “too many” daters, you are advised to set your target audience. Make it clear and state who you want to meet.

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Bad dating etiquette and habits

Since the law of attraction exists between you and another, etiquette has been needed as it is important. There are people who ask why something is appropriate and suitable and there are some finding it totally unhappy. In today’s dating scene, there are many rules unspoken but deemed to be true and could actually let you follow what other people say, and then you do it. So, keep watching your dating habit because it is important and it helps you guide you through a variety of situations in your dating world. It could lead to a blissful dating life and at the same time, it would lead to an embarrassing and heartbreaking moment.

1. Building Intimacy but not commitment
Internet dating can enable you to deepen intimacy without defining a level of commitment. Given that there are thousands of online dating sites featuring million members, you won’t find it difficult to hook up with someone, and build intimacy with someone quickly. Of course, if both are fine for the emotional and even physical benefits of intimacy, there is pleasure. But in many cases, an intimate relationship should be a beautiful experience that we all human in general want to enjoy, and should come from commitment-based love.

2. Endless search of potential partners with unrealistic requirement
Everyone has certain dreams in their potential dates. But are you convinced that you can find him or her who is unrealistically perfect? Do you think you have to find this person in your life? If you answered yes to either of these questions, then chances are very high that you will keep using the online dating sites for years. Then, please think about the time you would spend on these websites, as well as how it affects your life emotionally. So, beware of the dangers when you set your requirement in your heart.

3. Using chat room as a dating heaven
There are millions of chat rooms aimed at singletons who would like to quickly hook up new friends. It is free, quick and easy to use. So, a lot of online daters chose chat rooms instead of dating sites, saving bucks while enjoying more benefits. However, research found that it is more likely that people become targets of online sex predators by using chat rooms instead of dating websites. It is even more dangerous for them to use chat room if they want to find a sincere friend. Of course, it is easy to find people there. But it is not always successful to find a long-term and committed one.

4. Using dating site as an escape
It can well be that you have a number of great friends around you, and you have a very good supporting network, like your friends, family, colleagues. And everyone is convinced that you can find a great friend or partner in your own network and you don’t really need to find people on the Internet. Dating sites can help you seek romance, build relationships and escape loneliness. Check your reality and see what the problem is first. If you want to build a healthy relationship from the net, you must first figure out the existing problem you have right now.

5. Try to be someone you’re not
It is a usual habit for many online daters to try to act like someone but they are not. We all know that we try very hard to impress people and it is especially the real case for many online dating sites users. However, it is not that you brag to win over another person. After all, when you both are together, you have to be honest. So, tell them the truth and authentic and let the real you come out.

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